About Bianca

Creator of Bewonder

Our rustic little home is never quiet: piano notes spilling through the house, homeschool giggles, tadpoles being rescued, five dogs snoring in heaps, one cuddle-bear rat and one always-on-a-mission rat, our old-man mouse Sonic napping in his little house and only emerging at snail-speed for sunflower seeds while tiny Snowflake-mouse zooms around like lightning, Fred the wonky-winged dove cooing softly, lovebirds screaming over my Zoom calls, and one wild parakeet who shouts from the tree every morning until I come out for our daily chat and breakfast.

I share this wild, beautiful life with my forever person Wickus: my guiding light, the man who turns charcoal into breath-taking drawings and plays piano and sings in a way that leaves me in awe every time I watch or hear him in his element. A single conversation with him can swallow an entire day. He’s my rock, my mirror, the safest place I know to fall apart and come back together.

We’re raising Mikael (11) and Mileah (9), two small humans who never stop surprising me. Mikael is strong-minded with a fierce sense of justice; he’ll code an entire Minecraft world before breakfast and then stand guard over the weakest animal like it’s his life’s mission. Mileah feels everything deeply (she just hides it behind cartwheels and handstands), creates the most beautiful art, dreams of gymnastics, and turns every soft toy into a character with a full backstory. Together they run the frog sanctuary by the pond, naming every tadpole and celebrating every new jumper like it’s a birthday. Both of them love animals with a tenderness that teaches me daily: comforting thunder-scared dogs, whispering to tadpoles, and protecting every creature that crosses our path.

I feel everything at full volume.

I run an agency, design brands, coach women out of cages I once lived in, and still catch myself slipping into people-pleasing, shrinking for approval, trying to keep everyone comfortable before I remember I’m allowed to take up space.

Then I pick up a pen.

Each piece I create is a moment, a phase, a truth, knowing it won’t last forever. Because nothing stays.

And we’re not just one thing.

Bewonder is my love letter to every woman who’s ever felt too much, too soft, too late, too everything.

You’re not.

You’re allowed to be mother and lover, messy and rising, quiet and loud, all in the same heartbeat.

You’re allowed to shift: to be soft, fierce, lost, rising, and return to wonder.

I find mine in small things: a child’s curiosity, a bird’s stillness, the quiet strength of starting again.

Be yourself. Follow your excitement. Go all in.

Otherwise you’ll always wonder what could have been.

Welcome home. I’m so glad you’re here (dog hair and all).

With ink and love,

Bianca